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[6-16-2009 Update Insert: Most of what is in this space is now moot. I found out what I was doing wrong and have reinstated Archives and Labels searches. They do work. However, in certain cases you may prefer Labels to Archives. Example: 1976 Today begins in November of 2006 and concludes in December of 2006, but there are other related posts in other months. Note: Labels only shows 20 posts at a time. There are 21 hubs, making 21 (which is for 1976 Today) an older hub.] ********************************* to my online poems and song lyrics using Archives. Use hubs for finding archival locations but do not link through them. Originally an AOL Journal, where the archive system was nothing like the system here, this blog was migrated from there to here in October of 2008. Today (Memorial/Veteran's Day, May 25, 2009) I discovered a glitch when trying to use a Blogger archive. Now, it may be template-related, but I am unable to return to S M or to the dashboard once I am in the Archives. Therefore, I've decided on this approach: a month-by-month post guide. The sw you see in the codes here stood for Salchert's Weblog when I began it in November of 2006. It later became Sprintedon Hollow. AOL provided what were called entry numbers, but they weren't consistent, and they didn't begin at the first cardinal number. That is why the numbers after "sw" came to be part of a post's code. ************** Here then is the month-by-month post guide: *2006* November: 00001 through 00046 - December: 00047 through 00056 -- *2007* January: 00057 through 00137 - February: 00138 through 00241 - March: 00242 through 00295 - April: 00296 through 00356 - May: 00357 through 00437 - June: 00438 through 00527 - July: 00528 though 00550 - August: 00551 through 00610 - September: 00611 through 00625 - October: 00626 through 00657 - November: 00658 through 00729 - December: 00730 through 00762 -- *2008* January: 00763 through 00791 - February: 00792 through 00826 - March: 00827 through 00849 - April: 00850 through 00872 - May: 00873 through 00907 - June: 00908 through 00931 - July: 00932 through 00955 - August: 00956 through 00993 - September 00994 through 01005 - October: 01006 through 01007 - November: 01008 through 01011 - December: 01012 through 01014 -- *2009* January: 01015 through 01021 - February: 01022 through 01028 - March: 01029 through 01033 - April: 01034 through 01036 - May: 01037 through 01044 - ******************************************************* 1976 Today: 2006/11 and 2006/12 -- Rooted Sky 2007: 2007/01/00063rsc -- Postures 2007: 2007/01/sw00137pc -- Sets: 2007/02/sw00215sgc -- Venturings: 2007/03/00216vc -- The Undulant Trees: 2007/03/00266utc -- This Day's Poem: 2007/03/00267tdpc -- Autobio: 2007/04/sw00316ac -- Fond du Lac: 2007/04/00339fdl -- Justan Tamarind: 2007/05/sw00366jtc -- Prayers in December: 2007/05/sw00393pindc -- June 2007: 2007/06/sw00440junec -- Seminary: 2007/07/sw00533semc -- Scatterings: 2008/08/00958sc ** Song Lyrics: 2008/02/sw00797slc ********** 2009-06-02: Have set S M to show 200 posts per page. Unfortunately, you will need to scroll to nearly the bottom of a page to get to the next older/newer page.

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Thursday, February 22, 2007

sw00227a-sexuality

Sexuality "The Salchertian Scale" There's a good chance I have already written about this somewhere herein, but my view is based solely on what I have learned about myself in my going on 67 years of being Earth-alive. It could not, honestly, be any other view of sexuality. However deeply we as humans inter- connect with each other, the fact of the each other can not go away so long as we are allowed to exist as an each. When I emerged from my mother's womb, I became a separate being physically; and I have lived and expect to die as a separate being. Is it a lonely trek? Yes it is. Yet that is not all it is. - So, what have I learned about my sexuality? The first truth is: I cannot be exact about it. The second is that there is a position I maintain which many others do not share: One's sexuality is determined more by how one feels (by what excites one) than by what one does. As I passed through my childhood, I discovered--partly due to a certain incident about which I wrote in veiled terms in one of my poems--I was attracted to my own body, wimpy body that it was and is; and that I was attracted to other males more than to females; but, mostly, that in the end, I actually wasn't much interested in physical sexual activities. That being so, I recently attempted to determine to what degree I was each of these. Here is a possible rating: 60% a sexual non-participant; 25% an autoerotic; 12% a homoerotic; 3% a heteroerotic. Such a rating of myself--what I "know" about myself notwith- standing--may be quite not right, just as I am quite not right*. It is, however, an honest attempt. - During my elementary and high school years I had, roughly, 12 puppy love attachments to males, none of whom were--to my knowledge--ever aware of my desire. During that same period of my existence, I was attracted to 3 different females, one of whom I eventually married. There is a semi-tragic story at the core of that union, but I do not wish to reveal it at this time. Besides, I have written and spoken of it often enough, and it will come to light again when some of my diary entries appear in this weblog. In the meanwhile, certain aspects of it can be gleaned from a number of the sonnets in my 1976: in 2006 work online here. About my encounters with myself, I'll say only this: There were times I nearly did things that could have ended this physical existence I yet have or damaged it and other realms of my being in ways I do not care to dwell on. About my encounters with other males, there were not that many, though a few of them had mystical qualities I have never understood. What I consider to be my "coming out" experience was the first such, and I did years later write a poem about it. I will say that my being easy to fend off while I was young was a blessing. When I was older, there was no need to fend me off because I was never the aggressor. Even when I was in my thirties, I was still a twink; and that was when I became visible. However, I do suspect classmates of mine, especially when I was in high school, had already determined how to label me. - To those of you who have read this far I now suggest: Go read D. H. Lawrence's "The Ship of Death". You should also read James Weldon Johnson's "The Creation". - - - - - * I have frontal lobe and generalized epilepsy which a certain medicine has been keeping under control. Brian A. J. Salchert

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